My First Post!

This is my first blog ever, so i hope that i do this right!! I decided to start a blog for myself, it's a good way to get what i have to say out. The title is not meant to be harsh, it's just reality. I am a plus size women but that does not define who I am but according to today's world it does. I am not trying to offend any skinny women, I am just trying to protray to everyone what society has done to all women not just plus size women. We women are always told what and what not to wear, eat, how to look, how not too look, who to date based on our size, who to be friends with, what jobs to have all based on our size. I have a wonderful life, an amazing marriage to a wonderful man that is not a plus sized man, I dress nice but don't try to look like I am a size 5 when in reality I am a size 16. I am going to share my thoughts on everyday life as a women who is trying to live her life and not listen to all of today's sterotypes that they have placed on all women. I hope to find and give encourgment to women of all sizes that are finding it very hard to live in this crazy mixed up world and all the crap that comes with it!